and then four days later, i'm out of here and i go down to mexico. and i'll tell maria, i'll tell maria, i'll say, 'look, i'm down here. little busy. and i'm on vacation.' and when i come back, i will be tanned. no one will know. he said, "arnold, are you out of your mind?" he said, "you're going to have a big scar here on the chest. what do you mean your wife is not going to see the scar?" >> stahl: but people are listening to you tell this story, and it's bizarre. >> schwarzenegger: very. >> stahl: what is it with you? i'm... i'm serious. >> schwarzenegger: i don't know. that's the way i handle things. and it always has worked. but, i mean, it does not... it's not the best thing for people around me because i sometimes... some information, i just keep to myself. >> stahl: what's astonishing is the enormity of what he kept to himself or tried to-- beyond open-heart surgery? well, what about running for governor? once again, you don't tell your wife. >> schwarzenegger: that's right. >> stahl: he says he waited to tell maria till only a few days befor